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ok i have to be a hater just this once. is this a safe space. i do not like the danganronpa fashion collabs, theyre all extremely boring to me.
#the new one i actually did like some aspects of but this is just like. my blanket statement#theyre not *bad* theyre just uninteresting#to me#im sure someone who actually knows shit about fashion would disagree with me#because my love for it comes purely from personal preference and knowledge of color coordination#and i think they do have a lot of wide appeal#neutral colors inoffensive shapes#but thats kind of why i dislike them#it looks like they were bought at target to me#like my untrained thriftpilled eye that doesnt know shit about what an expensive gray sweater looks like#point is#it all just looks very corporate to me#like theyre *trying* to achieve that widespread appeal#because they are#because thats what fashion brands do#it just feels very impersonal yknow#like their character wasnt considered for what clothes they were put in#with hajime or makoto i guess its believable but for characters with strong senses of style like junko or nagito it just feels strange that#theyre wearing such inoffensive clothing#like i dont think theyd wear that#i know the point is to put them in specific styles that arent necessarily tailored to their characters#and its not like theres anything wrong with doing that#the point of this is not to pretend like this is an actual issue i just think theyre bad lol#im just a hater about this specific topic#never again will i talk about it because i don’t actually care#kisses your cheek#i promise#goot bye#the twenties whisper
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No i dont think its a good thing to make hating children your entire personality but can i please just say that i dont like them and dont want to deal with screaming temper tantrums and meltdowns from other peoples kids (especially, ESPECIALLY when the parents are absolutely useless in dealing with them) without 30,000 people crawling out of the woodwork to assume that i think all kids should die
#i dont like them. in fact i kind of do hate them#but i am also a mature adult who can control my actions and do not show it outwardly#i am actually very good with kids#but i dont want anything to do with them and my dislike of them doesnt mean im a child abuser#thinking of this after working the family and disability line at work today#and the amount of meltdowns i had to soothe myself because their parents just stared blankly at them#and how this happens all day every day in that line#its because you put their teddy bear into a bin and it disappeared. thats why theyre screaming. they dont know where its going#why is it my job to go 'dont worry! lions just getting his picture taken like you do at school :)) you might be able to see it if#you ask the officer very nicely at the other end of the line :))'#its 4 in the morning. dont make me do two jobs at once#vent post
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Kyoko still regularly visits the Corn clearing because it's her happy place, and early into the production Ren goes to visit the spot for nostalgia and happy memories. They run into each other there and Ren immediately realizes who she is
#skip beat#kyoko mogami#ren tsuruga#kyoren#never left kyoto au#I think he kind of knew already in the back of his mind but didnt really register it until they meet in the forest#a big part of the fun of this au for me is imagining what their reunion would have been like if they hadn't gotten off on the wrong foot#like they do in the manga#because even after he finds out his distaste for her motivations and her consequent grudge against him color their interactions for a while#(I also think she unintentionally triggered his trauma when they first met which is why he reacted so strongly to her but thats a rant for#another day)#he's just so so so so so drawn to her while also desperately wanting to keep his distance#but it's hard when he feels like he's suddenly back in his most precious memories#and kyoko is so charmed by him#platonically (at first)#she connects to people so quickly and the only reason she disliked Ren for so long was because he was mean to her hgkdfjdk#and I don't think 30 year old kyoko would have the same 'i hate who Sho hates' mentality 16yo kyoko did bc thats just how teenagers are lol#anyway i've ranted long enough I think about them so much
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i think the whole discourse around whether or not cishet aro men are queer stems specifically from the idea of allo aros being hypersexual - and so the idea of an allo aro, specifically a straight aro man, draws to mind the idea of like, fuckboys, or sexist men who only view women as sex objects, etc. And that is likely why the idea of cishet aro men leaves such a bad taste in apparently so many peoples mouths
now, i’ve spoken before about how attraction =/= libido. i’ve mostly spoken about this in the context of being ace, where asexuals can still have a libido despite not experiencing sexual attraction. the confusion and conflation between attraction and behavior has been a huge source of frustration for me with regards to the popular idea of asexuality and how it has confused me on my path to figuring out my own sexual identity over the years
BUT. the idea holds true not only for aces who have high libidos - but also for allosexuals who have low libidos. the idea that to be allo aro is to immediately be some hypersexual fuckboy is just, so warped? just because you experience sexual attraction but not romantic attraction does not mean you immediately become some sexist pig who always needs your dick wet. like idk it’s just beyond fucking frustrating to see the way that people sexualize alloaros when they’re just - they’re just people. you would not assume what another person’s sex life or libido is if they were otherwise alloromantic allosexual, because your orientation describes the way you experience attraction, not your behavior and sex life, nor your libido. in the same way, being alloaro has literally nothing to do with what your actual libido is. so why are allo aros the exception? to try to divide the community and exclude them based on your assumption of their sex lives is just so fucked
#brot posts#aro tag#gonna get a bit TMI here. beware#i think im definitely acespec i dont know if im fully ace or not but im definitely acespec#and i dont care to define myself further than thst cuz its just gonna be frustrating for no reason#and the reason why i get so mad about the idea that aces inherently dont have sex#is that like - im acespec and i definitely have a libido of some kind#im still a virgin tho! like im not out here being some fuckboy#i just jerk off about it like jesus christ#like when you have this idea of alloaros in your head of being some hypersexual freaks with no boundaries and disrespectful of their#partners etc insert every fuckboy stereotype#its just - why are you assuming things about their sex lives and then deciding you dislike them based on your assumptions#1. how do you know theyre even having sex? all because theyre allosexual?#not all allosexuals have sex…? and not in a celibate way?#they could just jerk off about it and be perfectly content that way. same as me!#2. and even if they are having sex who give a shit? fwb exist you can easily have respectful consensual sex without romance#to assume otherwise is just….#well dare i say it. its very sex negative. you have messed up ideas on sex if thats what you think
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Kind of wish people would understand that you can dislike characters actions and they can piss you off but you can still enjoy the show as a whole
#yes this is about yellowjackets 💔 it is not a lack of media literacy to dislike a fictional character because they annoy you#thats just a byproduct of interacting with any kind of fiction#it happens#i hate shauna because she annoys the hell out of me but i understand a lot of her motivations and her situation-#-which makes me understand how complex of a character she is. but that doesnt mean i actually like her#she still annoys me#i just know why she annoys me#and i think a lot of people are too obsessed with the show to actually understand that you can still like it-#-and even like the characters but still dislike and acknowledge when a character does something bad#because the character did something bad#like idk its weird to me that people get so defensive over it#just as characters can do bad things people can dislike characters for doing bad things and still enjoy the narrative at hand#you do not need to instill toxic positivity as a must to interact with fandom#you do not need to jump for joy at every pixel on screen#you can dislike things#hate them even#because everybody dislikes things. everybody hates things. thats just being human.#no show is perfect and the point of the show isnt even to be perfect#which is something people repeat over and over as to why you need to like everything in it (which seems like backwards thinking to me)#people can be complicated and the show (and characters) is complicated#but you can dislike complex things??#i do not understand the narrative people are pushing that you cannot dislike any character because it 'proves' you dont understand nuance-#-and cant handle an 'adult show' like yellowjackets#the argument just reminds me of people who get angry when you criticise the humor in rick and morty#its so 'you need to be an intellectual to understand it'core i fear 💔
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people are of course free to feel how they want about things regarding isat and what parts of the story/characters/gameplay etc they like and dislike.. Hell i sure have things i dislike along with all my love for the game. but i feel like a lot of the grievances i've seen about the artbook are just taking something that's clearly a joke too seriously, in an extra content book that's just meant to show some behind the scenes and creators thoughts. Like komaeda's in this book ok lets chill out
#i dont think 'i forgive you kitten' is the hill to die on about mental health. Actually can i say skmething. Can i say something#I think it's fine and even interesting for the party to have views on siffrin post-loops that honestly aren't helpful or healthy#or what siffrin needs (And vice versa from siffrin's side too.!) of course they all love and care for eachother#in such a deep way that they are inseperable no matter their actual physical distance. but. theyre human and thats why isat's chara writing#is so beloved .. so its fine to explore the possibility of their skewed views of siffrin. Like in their view they woke up#On the day of the end of the world. And the silly funny kind of mysterious fella in their party is suddenly going crazy and also omniscient#And then they find out through a third party(yeowch) a General Jist of what's been going on#so at JUST the end of the game yes i think their view of the situation is going to be far removed from what actually happened#Until siffrin opens up about the severity of it. Or lack of if you're the guy who soeedrsn the game in 14 loops#Also its quite heavily wstablished that genuine empathy and emotional connection does NOT come easily to odile#and she's slightly condescending multiple times (character flaw otherwise(charm point. to me))#so really that seemsnlike a frustratingly Odile way to conceptualize it to me LMFAO#is it realistically a good way to view your dear family who just had a severe psychotic break because of the torture nexus NO.#but does that make it interesting from a character standpoint Well yes.#This kind of got away from me. I like odile :)#by 'things i dislike' in this post i mean that some of the dialogue grates on me heavily. Yes its the thmblr game and i respect that#Does not mean i have all of the tumblresque dialogue that often made me roll my eyes. However#it is forgiven in the way that some of it comes back around by changing with the loops and turning into something genuine#and character defining. best example is the nya bit. First time j was like uuuuhg fucking ok we get it he's a catboy made in the blorbo lab#And then it comes around as them getting jnsanely frustrated with the loops themselves the repetition their disability#which is a cinstant reminder to every reset going back to a strained relationship with bonnie. the loop where he hits the counter#And just sits to shut down in silence made me go Ok i forgive the nya bit. And then when they break the counter of course we all love it.#ACTUALLY that bit is a very Odile character moment too. When she genujnely offers for someone else to lead#But because of odiles past being slightly condescending(even as jokes) + siffrins own martyr complex he takes it as being seen as incapable#Sorry i love the messy intricacies i hope nobody fucking reads all this
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Always got the vibe that Scott pilgrim wasn’t gonna be for me but I’m watching the new anime rn and thats made me look into some of the original stuff (movie and comics) that follow the main plot and. Hm. I can’t tell if all this stuff is racist or not. I feel like I don’t have enough context cuz i cant be fucked but it’s setting off my “multiple stereotypes detected” radar and my “maybe look into this to see what asians have to say about it” senses. Is Matthew the only brown character in this series?
#nnstuff#rambling#sorry I can appreciate the themes of getting a second chance#and like having to grow as a person and stuff#none of that is what’s bothering me. i dont care if scott sort of dated a high schooler or if both him and ramona cheated a lot#cuz i know the point is that they can work through it and thats made more impactful by them actually having fucked up in serious ways#i just dont like how non white characters are used/treated#but also im not going into this series with a positive outlook anyway becuase i've always just kind of disliked it. not sure why
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Have to change a bit of when Revari and Ena were born bc apparently Veilguard is in 9:49 instead of 9:52 like I thought
#dragon age#crow rambles#not too big a deal mostly just have to push their birthdays back a little#i also may change the reason ena ended up with the crows bc he ended up with them when he was 9#bc of their ages (with viago being roughly a decade older than ena give or take) ena did end up receiving regular crow training#you know. the beat the shit out of other children so you dont die kind#ena saw viago like twice and decided he was going to be loyal to HIM#and ambitious 20 year old Viago saw a scrawny 10 year old willing to fight to the death for him and well. how could he NOT take him under#hiw wing? Ena is oddly loyal for a crow and somehow has an odd sense of whos trustworthy and whos not#(thats inspired by me having him dislike illario from the start for unknown reasons lmao)#he also has an intrest in poisons which is a plus#normally a young crow wouldnt be allowed to train a recruit like that i wouldnt think but viago found a way#eventually ena being the little shit that he is/was somehow managed to get viago to ACTUALLY like him#outside of his ambitions. this is why ena didnt fuck die when he went off the plan before veilguard lnao#oc: ena de Riva#oc: revari mercar-surana#my ocs#worldstate: mage rights
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i havent even thought about what starter im going to choose omg... i don't think i have any preferences towards type, i usually just end up liking pkmn based on vibe and aesthetics LMAO, and I've never played any game except for platinum (and I haven't even finished my first playthrough of it....) so i have zero experience in choosing starters,,,, THIS IS EXCITING
#choosing to be excited abt this rather than stressed fhdkdl#i like how litten looks but i dont rly like incineroar#actually i dont know if i rly like any of the third evolutions of the starters#okay wait actually i take it back. i just looked and the third evo of rowlet is fun#im so sorry to incineroar likers and primarina likers 😭#incineroar looks silly to me and primarina just annoys me DBFJDML its calls in the anime were rly grating on my nerves after a bit 😭😭#rowlet in its first evo doesnt appeal to me a whole lot tbh which is funny bc now that i look at its evo line i rly like the others#but rowlet itself is just kind of ... shrug. like it looks very polite but it doesnt have any sort of Spark to it yknow?#its just a polite looking orb fjdksl#which is perhaps the charm of it but i feel like its an orb w a bowtie and its very plain fjdksl#theres not a lot of ✨Personality✨ to its appearance#WHICH IS PERHAPS RICH COMING FROM ME. THE INFAMOUS PIPLUP ENJOYER. DNDKSL#i think im gonna go w rowlet though which is funny bc thats the one I thought i Wouldn't be going with#i like popplio and litten in terms of design way more but i just dislike both their third evos too much to choose them 😭#WAIT WHY DOES ROWLET HAVE TWO TYPES#I THOUGHT ALL BASE STARTERS ONLY HAD ONE TYPE??? HUH??#okay anyways i gotta stop chattering djdksl i am sitting outside i should not be looking at my phone LMAO im gonna do some sketching#yall... im choosing another bird pkmn as my starter.... i fear i may be developing a pattern of some kind LOL#dandy.cmd
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i got cut off. continuing my thoughts
#as i was saying i rly dislike when the dr is like The most specialest person ever in the history of the universe like. its one of my least#favorite things. i rly prefer it when rheyre just like. a random person who just kind of happens to be the last timelord left and just sort#of farts around helping ppl. yk. i rly like them like. not being anybody Particularly special but going out of their way to help ppl.. thats#why i dislike the timeless child stuff bc its like. literally making them the specialest and most important ever and the reasin timelords r#timelords and lalala. i just dont like it sry to say i think rhe dr is at their best when theyre like. an average person w an anti#authoritarian/rebellious streak. i like it its funnnn. and i like the guilt angles as well..... yk. i like them being complicated and stuff#i just dont like like. ohh dr yr actually the most important ever. yk. its the same thing with like. i prefer my companions rhe same way i#like when the companions r completely average ppl who start travelling w the doctor and go out of their way to help ppl and stuff like. i#like it !!!! idk.
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starscream got himself a harem in earthspark? im pissing myself
genderbending like half the cast is interesting. i wonder why they decided that? just for fun?
well, i like it. ive been thinking about harems a lot so it was funny. and also i want to draw it. fundamentally im never in favor of this but im not taking it seriously anyways
usually i prefer genderbending just starscream and leaving sw and tc as male. reverse harem. but like this too. idk why i never thought about it before
#ngl i can see why there was controversy about this show#its ehhhhhhhhh#its like. one side of the scale is wfc and the other side is this but theyre the same coin#idgaf i heard ss shows up thats why im watching it#ppl told me ss has great character development but this is also the crowd that thing character development is just redemption#and the only way he can grow is by being redeemed. soooooo#not really a fan of ss being redeemed. i like it sometimes but only#augh its not really redemption. i like it when he breaks out of the vicious cycle internally but still has to fight the one externally.#'decepticons attacked san francisco' FINALLY!!!! FINALLY SF TAKES CASUALTIES IN MEDIA#I HATE THAT CITY#i dont really like how expressive sw sounds. ill probably get used to it ig#also i hate the new cast. ht can stay but fuck jb and ns especially ns#by new i mean excluding the human kids and the terran twins#i dont like them either but its the kind of dislike i have for all MCs nothing personal. i might like them eventually.#theyre written annoyingly but with damage control so i can ignore it and pretend theyre written not annoyingly#the characterization isnt bad tho. of the kids. the pre-existing guys tho.....#how a show portrays op is a pretty good indicator how good the show gonna be thats all i gotta say
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new pokemon episode!!!
#vi rambling#pokemon#this ep was great honestly... i kinda lowered expectations because i kinda... disliked last ep lol . a lot didnt make sense#but i really liked basagiri's characterisation and seeing more of lucius.. that flashback was really sweet and a lot can be inferred from i#and there were great moments direction wise. basagiri locking them in with the rock tomb and liko terastalizing were really great#i will say im a little disappointed it didnt last for one more episode? it felt a bit short lived in comparison to the others?#because the pacing was mostly spent on looking For basagiri. and when we finally find him ig all just feels pretty short.#honestly i think my biggest problem is perrin because as much as i wanted to like her her presence felt pretty unnecessary imo.#until now the series has done a shockingly very good job at implementing the game characters in a way that doesn't feel forced#but in this case it.... kind of is. i didnt feel like she did much other than providing the initial picture and her dynamic with the others#didnt stand out enough for me to feel like the characters gained anything from her presence. there was the cute moment with dot last ep#(which was honestly the highlight of the episode imo) but its very short and doesnt change much or provide much insight on perrin herself.#mostly sad the rest of the rising volteccers are being kinda shelved for this... which is transparently the intervention of gamefreak#wanting to promote the games. ehhhh whatever whatever. i cant decide if what would solve this would be perrin staying longer#or just writing her out. no clue.#anyways DIANA IS BACK LETS GOOOO. i will say seeing liko's growth is really satisfying and so is rhe rest of the kids#and this ep did a much better job at that than last episode because seriously im so... what was with that.#ITS FINE im not gonna be negative about last episode i enjoyed this one and thats what counts. i need episode 75 very badly#FOR THE THIRD TRAVELER REVEAL... i dont remember her name but . this sounds fascinating i NEED more of gibeon and lucius#from just the little information that is scattered and inferred... they fascinate me.#also i realize why lucius fascinates me so much.#something to do with... a kindhearted gentle looking hero of old.... with blue hair... who roams the land helping the people (or pokemon)#who sort of haunts the narrative as rhe character who's legendary legacy the main character is following after his journey has ended...#HMMMM.... HIMMEL CODED MUCH..........
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one like. sonic fandom shipping trope i guess is what you'd call it. that really annoys me is when people have amy move on from sonic but then immediately get with someone who looks like him (or is said to look like him in shadows case) or is a copy of him in some way. and have that be part of the reason she likes them. or when people have sonics rivals/copies try to get amy to like them more as a way of proving they're better than him or something than out of genuine interest in her. i can't even explain why i find this stuff annoying i just do
#yes this is about sh/adamy and me/tamy and su/rgeamy#ive even seen people do this with jet ?? but not nearly as often as ive seen with those other characters#and i know a lot of people dont ship these pairings with those sorts of thoughts about them in mind but i know a lot of people do. so#well i know age gaps are a big part of the reason i dislike some of the ships themselves but thats not really what im talking about rn#im talking about the way people portray them#this doesnt really fit what i was describing and i also dont see it as often#but i also sometimes see people say amy only likes blaze because shes the sol dimension equivalent of sonic. which is also kind annoying#my feelings on 99 percent of amy ships range anywhere from ''ok well thats kind of stupid'' to ''HATE HATE HATE get it away from me NOW''#but. why can amy only ever like someone for sonic related reasons. dont like that
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i keep getting irrationally miffed at ppl 😐😐
#'impressed by how much u can talk abt this considering youve not played either game'#fuck off. as if im not just trying to show interest bc u + another friend are both into them + constantly talk abt them in our gc!!#i mean since u guys talk abt them all the time + theyre huge on tumblr like. it would be hard for me to not know anything abt them at all#literally what else can i talk to u guys abt anyway. i dont think there are any interests i personally have that they both gaf abt#if anything they actively dislike most of the things im hyperfixated on. or at least she does so like i cant bring that up can i.#all i did was share a post i saw on tumblr that i thought was funny. its not like i had some negative/controversial opinion#i just saw it and thought hey that makes me think of my friends bc they like those things maybe theyll find it funny too!!#dog sitting outside the door with rly big sad eyes offering them a stick i found in a puddle#i like listening to them talk and i will eventually play some of the games theyre into myself cuz they make them sound rly cool#and even if theyre not my kind of thing i like sharing interests with other ppl and sometimes thats enough for me to be able to enjoy it#i literally own some of them already but im just not in the mental space to start smth new right now. which i have SAID!!!!#why do u even care girl. as if u dont already have a ton of friends playing it that ur talking to abt it???? i wont have anything to add#and thats not gonna stop u from being able to talk to me abt it anyway????? like 2/3 of our conversations atm are abt bg3#man. i know its not that deep but it makes me kinda sad for some reason. im just trying. i guess next time ill just let u guys talk-#to each other or at me and not comment or say anything so u can pretend im not here or whatever it is u want#ughh. she probably didnt even mean it like that and ill feel stupid for getting annoyed and delete this later but whatever.#might work out early today and then i can like draw or play a game or smth the rest of the day. alright lets go#.vent#listening to my silly little jfunk/jazz/soul playlist and i already feel over it. healing
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Me: yeah I can do the pet portraits for [s's mil] but obvs want to do them on the same kind of surface as the other one, can you find out if the panel is cradled or flat? *includes photos taken at an angle so u can see the dimension/depth of the cradled panel vs the flat panel*
S: sure *sends photo of the painting hanging on the wall, photo is taken from directly in front of it* [mil] says the canvas feels like wood :)
Me:............. (YES IT IS WOOD BECAUSE ITS A WOOD PANEL HELLO?????? ADHAJHDSJSJEJEN THAT IS NOT HELPFUL!!!!!)
#Like I mean the photo is a tiny bit helpful bc i do see a shadow on the wall that suggests its a cradled panel. which matches my memory#of working on that one and j's painting#but like. without a photo taken FROM THE SIDE i cant actually be SURE#and thats why my photo i sent her showed it from the side...#also 'the canvas feels like wood' maam thats bc its not a damn canvas#technically the surface is hdf/masonite/hardboard but the cradle if it has one is wood#and masonite is wood-adjascent. wood fiber!#so it still doesnt necessarily help me#also s talked me into giving a discount bc she wants to order them as gifts for j's mom. and one for j too#and wants to know how long theyll take#an estimate at least#and I'm like..... ok theres what 3 or 4? or more than that?? and $35 each. instead of $50ea which i actually thought was kind of low. i#idk#like if [mil] was the one ordering them id charge full price :b she has $$$#but s+j arent that well off#so i guess its fineeee#anyway timeline is....maybe a couple of months.#which tells me i should only do two comms available at a time when i post the listing on etsy#bc 3-4 paintings at one time? on top of my other projects?#plus s still wants me to finish the illustrations for her book#like i dislike that this means i cant post the comm listing until I'm done with all of her paintings#bc i cant have that many at the same time#and actually get them all done in a reasonable amount of time#the more paintings the longer it takes#at the most i could start 2 around the same time so i can alternate between working on them#oh and ma+dad also want a painting from me as well - a landscape/seascape#anyway yeah so i have absolutely no idea how long this will take me actually sorry
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Uh oh (is having Wormwood thoughts)
#rat rambles#noooo hes supposed to be the guy I hate on for (mostly) no reason why is he kind of getting to me all the sudden#well I know why. smth smth the isolation of knowing that most ppl will never truly understand you and how that isolation in itself is also#smth that many cant wrap their heads around leading to a feedback loop of lonliness#but like also. fuckkkk man he isnt supposed to do it for me that wasnt supposed to carry him come on brin#like I soooo wish he had more going for him like we get the tiniest hint with some archive stuff but thats it man#hes from the god damn moon man whyyyyyy does barely anything abt him actually tie back to that#idk maybe theyll give him more to do. at some point. maybe.#well at least now I can hate him x wx from both a wx perspective and a wormwood perspective lol#ok maybe hate is a strong word but I do dislike it mostly cause its kind of boring as hell to me#idk I just dont like how sanitized wx tends to be made and I dont like wormwood being made the wx character development machine#like idk its just the most boring thing you could do with them I think#there are some things I think you could do with them but its like. idk not a just them sorta thing idealy#especially for wx I rly think their character potential shines best in a group enviorment#idk maybe Ill elaborate another time but rn its late so off to bed I go to not post again for five years
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